Some men would treat and love a child same way the treat their babymama while some would not even care if the child exist or not.From your question,it means you are in a relationship not married.Most children burn out of world luck turn to have wayward attitudes than those brought up in a home.
This question always seem to me that you are doing well for yourself so at this point you should consider your relationship stand before bringing forth a child into this world.Are you to end up with the man you plan to have a child with from the way he behave towards you?though some men change over night.I think if having a child would bring you happiness go ahead if only you can carter for him or her.Forget about the man reactions and do you.

Anyhow it may sound,there is hardly a relationship a man goes for without sex being his main motive and there is no reasonable lady out there who’s going to prioritise sex over care and affection.We know the world of today and most girls go after is money.A woman whom you are involved with must seek for care if otherwise you have to think properly.As humans,our happiness should come first..All a girl need from is man is care and attention.If she is going for the money or sex that becomes a business affairs.Everything between both parties must be mutual from respect,loyalty and care.

Pregnancy is the first thing we think of when we missed our periods especially when sexual activity took place,there are so many reasons why a lady can have a missed period it mustn’t be pregnancy.Below are reasons why some women have missed periods
1,stress.Stress can affect many functions of our bodies including our periods. Scientist know that stress boost levels of stress hormones
2, illness.A certain short or long term illness can cause period delay.
3,change in schedules.this can really throw the natural rhythm of the body.This is particularly true if you work shift work,women travellers too always find this change
4,medications.Although it’s not conclusive but many medications can affect menstruation,medications like anti-depressive,blood pressure pills and even antibiotics can affect your menstrual circle.Be sure to talk to your doctor about the side effects
5,overweight.Overweight can shift or disrupt your period or even stop them.Basic cholesterol compounds in fat cells can change the fat into a weight estrogen called estrone.
6,perimenopause,This the period of transitioning from reproductive to your non-reproductive years.

Majority of love it when their women take the leads in bed.From blowjob,you can see the excitement in his face during that process.Take your time and focus do not be in a rush,Men love it when their woman is enjoying the sex.Seeing you enjoy it would make him feel he is good at what he is doing.They way you look at him and talk during sex makes him feel like he on top of the world,that is the moaning and body movements.Change sexual positions,do the missionary which is riding him.though all this depense of personal preference but be sure you always lead.Be in the moment.Men love doggy style try this by looking at the mirror(that is both of you)if only it make you feel comfortable.Always take leadership in positions change and see spicy your relation would be.Initiate new ideas in the process.