why are women so controlling

This isn’t necessarily the reaction I want to have. As someone who writes often about emotional labor, I advocate for everyone to step up and do this type of work. I believe wholeheartedly that we need to shift the balance in the invisible mental and emotional load women most often carry: keeping track of the schedules, tuning into the emotions of those around them, noticing and delegating or doing household work in a way that keeps everyone comfortable and happy. But it can sometimes be hard for women to give up this work. And men often use women’s “just let me do it” resistance as an excuse not