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Asked: January 22, 20202020-01-22T10:26:31+02:00 2020-01-22T10:26:31+02:00In: Love & Relationships

Why do men cheat

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Honestly, i don’t know what’s wrong with some of these broke men. I’ve asked myself this question ” why do men cheat ” on countless occasions to my coworkers yet they seem not to give me the answer i really wanna hear. I’ve decided to bring it up here hopin’ to have a clear answer on this shit.

Can someone really honestly answer me pls?

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    1. Olga Amechi
      Olga Amechi Graduate @ University of Lagos
      2020-01-23T10:07:50+02:00Added an answer on January 23, 2020 at 10:07 am

      82% of men are evil cheaters. The remaining 18% are God’s sent from heaven.

      If you happen to find yourself in the 82% groups of men? You’re in trouble. But finds yourself in the 18% groups of men? You should NEVER passed a day without thanking him.

      Why? Because the;
      82% group are dog’s in human form.
      18% group are god’s in human form.

      Here is Nigeria, where i come from. Almost all our men comes from the 82% group.

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    2. Sylvia Gitau
      Sylvia Gitau
      2020-01-26T20:44:35+02:00Added an answer on January 26, 2020 at 8:44 pm

      This is the honest truth to this cheating issue.
      Men cheat because they do not fathom, understand or appreciate the value of their partner but they rather focus and worry more on their sexual gratification.
      There is more to life than just having sex with your partner, and even if you are not satisfied with your sex life with your partner, you ought to let your partner know of your concerns so that you both can work on it together.

      Fortunately, there are good and non-ignorant men out there who are aware of the implications of infidelity and their consequences.
      A man who decides to cheat on his partner has already made his choice by throwing away the trust his partner has on him, proving that he doesn’t care of what his partner might feel if she found out about it. And that makes him an asshole.
      A man’s cheating also has nothing to do with his partner, it has a lot to do with his character.

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    4. peterkings84@yahoo.com
      peterkings84@yahoo.com
      2020-07-11T05:34:38+02:00Added an answer on July 11, 2020 at 5:34 am
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      people actually make it seem like men cheat and women don’t, well i got news for you studies have actually shown that women cheat way more than men do. the only catch is women don’t get caught as much as men, with men after a few runs, the ego gets in the way and he starts to be careless. while ladies will only do it when its absolutely clear that its discreet

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    5. Arfe
      Arfe
      2020-01-23T00:23:28+02:00Added an answer on January 23, 2020 at 12:23 am

      Because no onde taught them the value of a woman and how to treat them. Because their hear are so hard that even the good advices are not strong enough to find a way in. Because we as a society applause such behaviour as a signal of manhood but are not worried about the message sent out towards objectifying the woman. Because we parents, ask that question only when cheated and we dont teach our kids from young age.

      That’s my dear, is why. Lack of God.

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    6. InstantRelationMan
      InstantRelationMan
      2021-06-21T01:04:30+02:00Added an answer on June 21, 2021 at 1:04 am

      Good question to ask but not only men always cheat women too do.
      To answer the question we will go by understanding how men are being built…men are created to dominate everything as said in the bible… This sense of domination give the envy and makes men aspire to have everything that is not yet theirs…
      We can represent this fact on relationship (Cheat) by saying that this domination do men want another woman once he thinks he has subdue the previous one(wive or girlfriend)
      Men goes like conquistadors that will have during his whole Mature life that envy to many woment under his/their control…. And it is said that sex is the best way to have control over a woman…

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    7. Rose Michellene
      Rose Michellene
      2020-01-26T05:09:24+02:00Added an answer on January 26, 2020 at 5:09 am

      Even I don’t really know why men cheat. But as I observe some of my male cousins and friends, they have multiple girlfriends because they are reserving. It’s like, if GF#1 broke up with him, there’s GF#2 for him so he wouldn’t be too broken-hearted because of the breakup between him and GF#1.
      Their mind is too advanced in a not-so-good way.
      And some men just like to play games. They treat women as toys so they play with them and don’t mind if they hurt the girl.
      In short, they cheat cause they’re assholes.

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    8. patrick Tirop
      patrick Tirop
      2020-02-07T10:57:23+02:00Added an answer on February 7, 2020 at 10:57 am

      The reason that men commit infidelity usually has less to do with the person he is in a relationship with than it does with his own self-esteem issues. Guys cheat because they use sex to validate themselves. For whatever reason, he doesn’t feel connected to his partner, so he turns to someone else to provide him with the attention and connection he feels like he is missing in his relationship.

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    9. ROMI GRAPHICS
      ROMI GRAPHICS
      2020-01-26T08:05:37+02:00Added an answer on January 26, 2020 at 8:05 am

      Every guy wants to have sex with other women. And when the opportunity arises, he takes it.
      It’s a man’s biological imperative to have sex with as many women as he can. Why should I be any different?
      If I got enough (or better) sex at home, I wouldn’t need to cheat.
      I’m not doing anything that most of my buddies don’t do. If you don’t believe me, ask them.
      If my wife hadn’t gained so much weight—or if she was nicer to me, or more attentive—I wouldn’t have even thought about going elsewhere.
      If my job wasn’t so stressful, I wouldn’t need the release I get from online sex.
      Cheating? Really? I mean, who would rationally call getting a lap dance in a strip club infidelity? It’s just what guys do for fun.
      My dad looked at magazines and went to strip clubs, and that wasn’t a big deal. Well, I have webcam chats and interactive sex. What’s the difference?
      If the police had been out chasing actual bad guys, I wouldn’t have gotten caught in that prostitution sting. Why don’t they go after some real criminals?
      I’m only sexting and flirting. Where’s the harm in that? I don’t meet up with any of these women in person. It’s just a game.

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    10. Salvadorg
      Salvadorg Industrial Engineer, Business Management.
      2020-03-09T22:42:13+02:00Added an answer on March 9, 2020 at 10:42 pm

      Hello,

      There are some reasons that come to my mind after reading your question.

      Men generally are more insecure than women so they behave in that way, using other relationships to reaffirm themselves.

      Men are less judged by society, especially in traditional cultures, so, women are less prone to cheats since the judgment will be a lot more negative than in men cases.

      Women chat, but it may be that are fewer cases statistically speaking, since women involve their feelings into a relationship, to men, sex is just sex in most cases.

      Women can be more discrete, so, women cases are less known.

      I hope this helps.

      Kind regards,

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    11. English From Heart
      English From Heart Education, Relation, Food, Health, peace
      2020-05-11T05:14:11+02:00Added an answer on May 11, 2020 at 5:14 am

      They cheat because they dont understand what woman go through in her life from childhood to elder phase. At the starting of realtion they are happy in courtiny you, adoring you, loving you, but when you get married the woman leaves the house which she was born and brought up in, which is a huge mental blow to her, then to cop up with new atmospher is a big task to her, then responsiblites assigned to her makes her exausted to go on with any desire.
      On the other hand man wants the woman to be same with him as she was before, he comapre the affection of before and after marriage and finds that woman is not the same now. Which cause him to seek attention, pleasure and desire from other ladies. Thats why they cheat.

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    12. Sushant Jain
      Sushant Jain
      2020-05-14T06:25:55+02:00Added an answer on May 14, 2020 at 6:25 am

      Actually, the problem lies in choosing a person. Not all men are alike. I know love is blind but we should always check the background of a person before falling for him. I hope you don’t fall for anyone blindly again.

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    13. AYUK MIKE tataw
      AYUK MIKE tataw
      2020-05-11T07:03:09+02:00Added an answer on May 11, 2020 at 7:03 am

      Why do men cheat.there are so many reason why men cheat.
      Some men cheat on their wife because they lack self respect in the relationship so the man go outside to look for that respect..
      In some relationship women mostly course their men to cheat on them,like they disrespect their men in front of their friends, they never give their men that love and affection they need.
      Some men cheat because it’s a normal thing from men,there can’t deta on girl..
      Some men cheat because of the behavior of their wife’s..
      Some men cheat because they no more feel comfortable in the relationship.
      Some men cheat because their can’t prepare them good meal..
      Some men cheat because their wife can’t performed well in bed..

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    14. Anonymous
      Anonymous
      2020-07-25T23:55:43+02:00Added an answer on July 25, 2020 at 11:55 pm

      Men cheat because of many reasons.1. a man can cheat because the wife is not nice to him on bed for instance she always Don’t give him enough sex ,2.anger / revenge he may cheat to get revenge he may be angry with his mate and want to hurt her so he will cheat intensionally just to hurt his partner. 3.immaturity . If he doesn’t have a lot experience in committed relationship or if he doesn’t understand that his actions could have consequences of hurting his partner he may think his commitment to the relationship is like jacket that he can put on and take it off

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