Hi shiwangi sharma, to answer your question. I will say true people get more cheaters because TRUE people are true to themselves, while nurturing that mindset they then intend to find another person who would be true also as them, so that they can live together happily ever after.

But bear in mind that as you true person is thinking that way, the cheaters has their own mindset and intentions to be with you; most usually with plans to fly away immediately they get what they wanted. At this point now, when the cheaters fly’s away, the true person will then remain lonely & sad at that juncture.

How i see it from my perspectives:
– true people are willing and ready to settle down.
– cheaters are NOT willing nor ready yet to settle down.

To me i see relationships far more beyond that; I see it as a love potion business partner-ship. Because anything with an interest is no more FREE, but a BUSINESS. So if in relationships there’s already expectation’s of give-and-take in the love potion (giving-and-taking is an act of exchange), which means exchange of different resources (love, money, business, item, product, service) but the same value.

If relationships was to be regarded more as a partnership not relationship, then believe me most relationships will be well handled as both partners knows if the other messes up the latter will own everything (because what humans fights for is properties: house, cars, lands, cash, etc..) you can name the rest. Because actually not all relationships are related, as we all know for two or more thing’s to be related, they must have a related interest (color, feeling, behavior, vision, beliefs etc..) So if you didn’t go to that club that night, you won’t have met her/him, so that common interest between you two is that CLUB[ref].

Relationship is one of the biggest love scam scheme cheaters have used to defraud billions and billions of dollars from numerous people around the world. As far as i know, love is something that doesn’t lie nor hurt, so if you’re in a relationship where there’s just countless of lies, hurts, loneliness & more sadness. Then the other partner is the ONE cheating you because you’re trying your best as a true person to put a smile on their face, but they practically do less or nothing at all to replicate that on your own face; (because there’s no related interest).

So why do true people get more cheaters, more loneliness & more sadness in their relationships? Because they spend their life searching for people who’re true as them, meanwhile true people are not that easy to find.

But i wish you goodluck to find a true person here on Thinkle who’ll be your other half. Just like car and petrol; (where either can NOT function without the other) (where both are more useful together, than useless separately).

I personally? My UNILEX as a programmer for now, it’s all good.

Unlike back then; During my transition time; from a copy writer, web editor, web designer, SEO research & analysis, to a programmer. I’ve been working for an average of at least 15 hours a day. With an estimated 80% of most time being 18.40 hours per day, till manifestation happened.

It came to a point in my life, where I had to passed some coupon days without taking shower, just to catch up with TIME, as I had limited time a day, just 24 hours to do 1 million things.

So, my personal life as a programmer, in terms of;
1. Family, wasn’t able to spend time with my nuclear family, talk less of my extended family. I could be like 6 months without talking with either of my extended family members, meanwhile I was just a WhatsApp call away from them. But believe me, I didn’t had a minute to spare.

I automatically distanced myself from my family. Not willingly, but had no option.

2. Friends, it’s the same situation as narrated above, about my family life.

3. Work environment, my work environment automatically became the love of my life, because I was more around that station than anywhere else around my residence.

So, the family life, friends and work environment is really a hard thing to deal with and/or managed as a programmer.

My daily life circle was like;
– Wake up (programmed or any time).
– On my computer (work for at least 15 hours)
– Sleep (my sleep time was between 4 to 5 hours).

With all these isolation, which reminds me as a programmed christian, with the culture and religion which teaches about the UNILEX of Jesus, during his time spent at the wilderness (unless you’re a programmed christian, you won’t be familiar with this statement).

Throughout these entire process of my UNILEX, it really made me “I AM WHO I AM” (this also appears in Jesus book), you may as well be familiar with this saying too as a programmed christian.

However, my entire life experience so far as a programmer, has been mixed with bitterness and sweetness, which off course now I realize and believe it’s the nature and natural process of human life transition.

So right now. My life as a programmer is like WOOO!!!