I personally? My UNILEX as a programmer for now, it’s all good.

Unlike back then; During my transition time; from a copy writer, web editor, web designer, SEO research & analysis, to a programmer. I’ve been working for an average of at least 15 hours a day. With an estimated 80% of most time being 18.40 hours per day, till manifestation happened.

It came to a point in my life, where I had to passed some coupon days without taking shower, just to catch up with TIME, as I had limited time a day, just 24 hours to do 1 million things.

So, my personal life as a programmer, in terms of;
1. Family, wasn’t able to spend time with my nuclear family, talk less of my extended family. I could be like 6 months without talking with either of my extended family members, meanwhile I was just a WhatsApp call away from them. But believe me, I didn’t had a minute to spare.

I automatically distanced myself from my family. Not willingly, but had no option.

2. Friends, it’s the same situation as narrated above, about my family life.

3. Work environment, my work environment automatically became the love of my life, because I was more around that station than anywhere else around my residence.

So, the family life, friends and work environment is really a hard thing to deal with and/or managed as a programmer.

My daily life circle was like;
– Wake up (programmed or any time).
– On my computer (work for at least 15 hours)
– Sleep (my sleep time was between 4 to 5 hours).

With all these isolation, which reminds me as a programmed christian, with the culture and religion which teaches about the UNILEX of Jesus, during his time spent at the wilderness (unless you’re a programmed christian, you won’t be familiar with this statement).

Throughout these entire process of my UNILEX, it really made me “I AM WHO I AM” (this also appears in Jesus book), you may as well be familiar with this saying too as a programmed christian.

However, my entire life experience so far as a programmer, has been mixed with bitterness and sweetness, which off course now I realize and believe it’s the nature and natural process of human life transition.

So right now. My life as a programmer is like WOOO!!!

It’s a 100% yes for me.
Because it takes love to marry, so if you don’t love someone first, then why would you even think of marrying that person? It’s so not possible. Love is an affection.

So if you ask me, I will say yes. You should love someone before thinking of marrying them.

Based on your question Alvinmorgan, I will highly recommend you research and explore more on the meaning of LOVE.

Thank you!