I am an African and i belief spirit leaves on after dead most especially that of our parents because they are the bases of our being.death means someone who was available to you is now absent.The closeness you had with someone when they where alive,when they die it’s either something falls from your hand and breaks or some strange feeling just get into you.The human body has three dimensions which are the physical,mental and energy body and physical existence.The other is spiritual not seen physically but relates or connects with the physical in other words a transits stage or state.When someone dies we say they are no more that’s not true because they are still much in existence.The physical body is borrowed from the earth isn’t it?is just a piece of earth noby is allowed to carry any earthly thing to the world beyond so even the body is earthly.The spirit finds another body after dead which it reincarnate into but if it doesn’t it roams the world in the form of ghost until it finds a body and the more it roams and gets intense it can then become physical.There a lot of them around us.Some people feel their presence most times with a their spirituality.These mostly occur when a person died untimely especially by accidents,suicides,murder or another way.When a person dies at the appointed time like old age he may find another body within hours.This is the best way of dead because your spirit would not be roaming the world for days,weeks to years.

From my own point of due,you have been dating one before the other came along meaning you are cheating on your former boyfriend with the new guy.It’s impossible to know both guys on the same day right?let’s say you discover the guy where first dating has another girlfriend how would you feel?you would call him a liar,cheat in fact all soughts of names because you feel hurt and betrayed.
In essence,are you happy being in that relationship with your former guy?are you comfortable with him?has he cheated on you?most guys cheat anyways even if they love you,are you sure he is in-love with you?does he treat you bad?there is no perfect relationship out there anyways let’s not be mislead with what couples post on social media.
Again,do not decide just yet to choose because you need to know more about the latter,some guys would pretend to any level to get what they want.It might be sweet in the beginning but weeks or months later you regret as the saying goes”a bird in hand is better than thousands in the air”.Ask your self the above questions then you can the4n decide to choose who between them is good for keeps.