When a couple doesn’t agree on the nr of kids they want, and they are both Christian and believe in the family hierarchy where God comes first then the man, the woman and the kids under each other leadership, but she feels like it’s already enough and her mind and body wont handle another pregnancy but the man has a dream about having another man and trying for a boy…who gets the last say here?
Should she ignore her feelings and support all the process of not only carrying a baby for 9 months but caring and nurturing for the rest of her life?
Should he forget his dream of be a daddy of a boy and of three kids and forces his wife to ignore her own body signals and put in risk her mental health, just to achieve that?
Should they both seek professional help from a Doctor or a Pastor?
The couple should put the issue in Gods hands, he is the one over seeing in new live and the creator of human beings. I personally think their counsel should be taken in to God. Prayer really helps and both should wait on what God thinks in good time. If its meant to be that she should have a child she will and if the Situation doesnt work as planned it wasnt in Gods plan.
You can have as many as possible in as much as you have the resources to take care of them.
It depends on both of you,the country you leave and also the economy of the country
Hello,
Different opinions on couples are one of the difficulties life comes with. Normally conversation and love would solve differences.
If every other thing like financial capability is solved, I would recommend having at least three children, the third child makes a community of brothers in my experience, when you have just two children it is kind of a bipolar situation.
Good luck,
Love,
Two.
Reason: 1.two children will accompany one another.
2. It’s good for population control.
As we have to think dual, for personel and public both
You need to agree with your partner on the number of kids to have I think also source of income matters when it comes to having kids
Children are a blessing from God. I have always respected the word of God that carries power all the days of lives. The bible clearly states how God,after creation decided on family for us.Adam and Eve were charged with perpetuating this God blessed institution and He categorically budgeted for it in the vastness of resources God commands.
I come from a community where its taboo to count children! However,the greed and soaring appetites of humanity have abused the contextual distribution and accessibility of resources to God’s children.
The scarcities that are now artificially generated negates man from enjoying that opportunity to populate the world as we truly discharge genuine God’s purpose! So the number of children a family needs to have has become a function of human induced budgets.
We can do better in developed countries such as Japan,Sweden or Germany where the population is aging and normal functions are being jeopardized by the imbalanced populations. China tried to curb its population growth by the ill-famed 2-children a family phenomenon but the country has made a recourse and relaxed these stringent policies.
the choice to have such number of children should a couples decision and not by another person’s intrusion. What we need to do is to enlighten the couples rather than institute policies that drive external influence into what is a sacred institution of marriage blessed and sealed by God’s covenant.
As much as you want. But carrying needs a lot of money. So it depends on your financial situation.
It all depends with the country you live in and the how the economy is fairing on
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