I’ve recently been wondering that maybe getting your heartbroken is a good thing, it teaches you what to looks for and what not to look for in your next relationship. It also makes you a stronger person emotionally.
What are your thoughts?
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A broken heart is not something you should be afraid of. A broken heart is your fatigue. A broken heart – that means you did something that not everyone can do. You let someone into your heart, you gave the best that you have, all of yourself, even that which you did not want to show. You gave, but the reaction was not what you expected and hoped for.
He took advantage of your trust. He saw your weaknesses and pretended to care. He took your love and never gave as much. And he took her even when he left. He took a part of you that he’ll probably never return, a part of you that you might never know again. But now is the time to say goodbye. Say goodbye to the person you were when you were together, when he was still there. Say goodbye to the person you are no longer. You are no longer his girlfriend, wife, lover, you are no longer HIS, you are just you.
You are you and all those broken pieces of your heart with which he left you. And you can decide to stay broken, lie on the floor scattered in pieces, or accept this fact, but start collecting yourself again . You are still here, even if not yet intact, even if all that remains of you is fragments of the person you were.
Your broken heart does not define you, but it helps to grow. Because those parts of you that are really important, no one can break. He can break your heart, not your soul. He cannot break what makes you up.
A broken heart hurts. This causes a feeling of hopelessness, fatigue, I want to run away from this, to rebel against everything. Pain becomes the main motivation, and you start to do something, only because you are in pain, sad, because you are angry . And although all this is the consequences of a broken heart, one should not be afraid of it.
A broken heart is not a monster under your bed, not falling from a great height, not diving without air to the bottom of the ocean. Yes, it hurts. Yes it’s sad. Yes, exhausting. But there is nothing to be afraid of.
A broken heart is a reality. Love ends, and we begin to return to the time when she was still alive. We think about everything, analyze and drive ourselves crazy.
But after this crazy period, we learn. We are aware of who we are. And then we think less about the past and about the person with whom we shared life, and we begin to look into the future.
We begin to understand what kind of people we want to see in our lives, how we want to give our love, because we know that they will return theirs to us. And when we understand what kind of love we deserve, then it is much easier to accept it when we meet it.
If the person no longer feel you don’t love you anymore why would you want to be with them yes heart breaks make us stronger and we learn a lot one is able to say on my next relationship I don’t want a reputation of this and that and may be through the heart break as much as you hurt in your next relationship you get your soul mate
You just put it in words. That was exactly what I was thinking. Yes it does bring you closer to your soul mate.
Definitely don’t go out of your way to get your heart broken now but heartbreak doesn’t need to be such a scary place as society portrays it out to be. It for sure hurts & could lead to self-harm in some situations but with a positive mindset, your view on such a controversial topic can indeed be beneficial.
Honey it doesnt need to be good or bad. It has to teach you something. From all experiences in our life we have to learn a lesson.
The things that happens to us have little to do with the people that did something. It has all to do with the way we respond to them. The situation is cheating than I can decide to be heartbroken or I can decide that that is simple not for me and I need to move on and to a person that is like this and like thay.
We can always choose the way we respond to the situations life throws at us. Not saying it’s easy…but we can.
I strongly support your thoughts. Yes heartbreak is good, I know sometimes we don’t like to get hurt, to go through heartbreak but that’s what makes us strong and be able to love more
The most important lesson I’ve learned from heartbreaks is at the end of the day, no one can love you better than you can love yourself. People will hurt you but you just got to keep your head high. Love yourself, take care of yourself both physically and mentally. If you believe in meditation/ focusing on your spirituality, go for it. Surround yourself with positive people and above all, learn how to let go.
Heart broken is a good for every time. You have to take wisizly decision.. Live is very short. Stay happily
Heartbreak is a very good thing especially when fall in love blindly.After a heartbreak your eyes become open to several things and life’s reality only then will you learn hiw to be happy and not to love blindly again.
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Really I have answered things for a long time now that heartbreak is really bad thing it makes people killing another
It does not need to be good or bad before you realized heartbroken is not good that’s to set you an example or to teach you a lesson, that’s to make you strong in any relationship you will emerged yourself next time..heartbreak is not good in a relationship because you will feel bad after a break up in a relationship,its a body’s way of communicating it pain,and if managed correctly,these heartbreak can lead you better,more creative and most stronger emotional place.
Heartbreak is painful, but it can also be transformative. While it feels devastating in the moment, it often serves as a catalyst for growth, self-reflection, and resilience.
The Good in Heartbreak:
Self-Discovery – It forces you to reevaluate your needs, boundaries, and desires, leading to deeper self-awareness.
Emotional Strength – Overcoming heartbreak builds emotional resilience, preparing you for future challenges.
Clearer Priorities – It helps distinguish between fleeting infatuation and genuine love, refining what you seek in relationships.
Creativity & Empathy – Many artists, writers, and thinkers channel heartbreak into profound work, deepening their understanding of human emotions.
The Painful Truth:
Heartbreak isn’t inherently good—it’s how you respond that matters. Wallowing in pain without growth only prolongs suffering. But if you allow yourself to heal, learn, and move forward, the experience can become a stepping stone to a stronger, wiser version of yourself.
Final Thought:
Like a broken bone that heals stronger, heartbreak reshapes you. It’s not the pain that’s good—it’s the person you become after surviving it.