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I have child for my husband, he didn’t only cheated but he got another woman pregnant .This community should help me please he claims to love me still, what should i do
First, you must heal and find a healthy way to vent off the tense emotions. Once you start doing that, learn to let go of what you cannot change and control. This will aid in your healing process. Forgive him if it is his first time. Have a dialogue so he could explain why he went out of the marriage to seek pleasure. Understand where you went wrong and try to fix it especially If he gives a solid reason. If he does it constantly, do not stay there. He is exposing you to danger and this may affect you greatly.
Do you have children with your husband?? A child is something special for its another human being so you can’t erase the product it’s either you accept it with much love and learn how to deal with it and move forward or you pack your bags and go. I can’t tell you the feeling go away for it won’t that kid brings a lot of change .
Hi friend, though, it is really heartbreaking but it is possible your husband might still love you heartily. Ask him the reason why he cheated on you. It might be seduction – from the lady he impregnated, carelessness from both of you guys or other reasons. Don’t judge him yet. Try to find out what triggered him to cheat on you. Take heart dear.
Hello mate,
I understand the pain that is accompanied by unfaithfulness in a relationship and I am really sorry for what took place. I personally believe that being in a relationship or marriage needs commitment, communication, understanding and, above all, love. Whenever any of the four misses, then there must be a problem in the marriage or relationship. I feel that whatever made your husband to cheat on you is because either of you failed in any of the four above-mentioned aspects. I understand you are in a painful situation but don’t give up on him just yet. Try to communicate with him to find the base of the reasons that made him cheat on you and try to come up with the best solution. You might find that maybe he never intended to hurt you and might be apologetic. If so, forgive him because we all make mistakes and no one is perfect.
Cheers!
In regards to the pregnancy…I believe it’s up to them both to decide right? You only have to deal with the cheating part. Are you willing to forgive him? We all have a glass roof so we can’t point fingers and say he has committed the worst of the worst sins…you are the only one who can take that decision and dont listen to us. We dont know you. Ask God for directions. Pray.
No one has reached out to Him and left unanswered.
its tough but Love always prevails,with prayer and consistent love,You can will him Over again.
Leave him,if he is not only yours,do not be for her.
Truly appreciate him for work well done, but it’s very bad for him to do that of which he knows he has a wife in his house
Truly if you love him stay with him because in life there is a reason for everything that happened in human life,learn to forgive him and accept him back but it’s wrong for him to do