Is it right to get back with your ex who left without a word? She just left without speaking to me and it really hurt. Tried moving on but sadly I just used another girl as a rebound because I wasn’t over my ex. Two years later she’s back and acts like nothing ever happened and I honestly still do love her but am scared I may be broken again
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There’s nothing wrong in trying. But i think, if she already done that before, she can do it again. Maybe you just feel that you still love her because you where left without any explanations. I think its better to try a new relationship with someone else done starting again with someone who just left you just like that.
Yes it’s good if you think that you can really have a great future with ex than it might be Worth trying to pursue them.however make sure you don’t spent your time to study your ex and hoping he will take you back,you should just try to get back together but if it does not work move on with your life..it’s a good idea to give yourself time after a break up,so that both party can study their shelf very well and know where the fault come from,so that there can fixed it and be happy again
Relationship is a commitment.. Always value the relationship. Always share to your partner. Be loyal to all…
You know the answers is no. You still care for her and are trying to find excuses to take her back. Why do you need an excuse? Talk to her ask her what happened…hey maybe she got pregnant and thought you wouldn’t want the baby or her father forced her to…unless you get to the bottom of the truth…you will feel like a fool who got played and you will live your life concerned with what people are talking about you. It’s none of our business and your happiness concerns you and only you.
So, talk to her and regardless of what she might tell you, if you feel like forgiving her…go for it. And be happy. Dont later on trow that back in her face as if you were merciful. Own the decision.
Only you can make the decision but if I were you, not a chance.
So if you really want to get back together with him, you’ll have to decide if you can get over the fact that she left you. … You’ll really have to do some self-reflecting and decide if the way and reason she dumped you is reason enough for you to forgive. If not, you just can’t take her back.
Put her on a probation period for a prolonged period of time. You need to tell her that it would take time before you can trust her again. Do NOT allow him to walk into your life like it’s a public square, where he can hang out and enjoy all its beauty and entertainment for free. Make her work very hard for it. Remember, behavior Never Lies. Someone can tell you anything you want to hear, but if they are not sincere, their behavior will tell you a completely different story.
Maybe you should find out why she left in the first place, maybe there was a misunderstanding. I wouldn’t go back. The same thing happened to me. My ex left without saying a word, its been more than two years, but I’ve finally learnt to let go and moved on. You will always love her but is it worth it?
Sometimes you just have to give yourself enough time to realize weather something is really worth the effort or not.
She doesn’t talk about it. Instead she ended up acting the victim