What is love all about in a relationship

When you consider love in a relationship, to many it is a word that many can fall into ,but when they falling out, it is really hard to do “love”.
So what is Love really you asked ? Its the purest form of guidance and sincerest gesture you bestow unto someone you admire physically and emotionally.
Love is patient- Means you are slow to talk in quick to listen in a relationship.
If you fight, the only way you will resolve the issue is when one stop ,and forgive immediately the next person.
Love is kind- in a relationship kindness brought you that person to be near you, the only way they will remain with you is through kindness, no matter your emotional circumstances or whether your brain feel like exploding. Always Always remain kind to her or him. Just do not show that side to him or her, because it will destroy you, to your partner, they will doubt your personality and think you are two different people from being kind at the meeting phase to- after 5years of friendship remain the same kind-hearted person.
Love is not boastful or self seeking- When you are in a relationship, always leave yourself out of the spot light. Never think much of your success, achievement or appearance to your partner, rather wish this for them. Otherwise it will show that you are not on their side, and may display competition in your relationship. Always choose them over yourself, do good to them, believe everything they say . This is the good guy/girl rule be pure and you will be unique, even to your partner rather be the helping hand ,and give ,give ,give …its more blesser to give than receive.
Love is not easily angered- Never boil yourself up in a relationship rather choose peac, and this is how much you love someone, to even consider corrupting their whole being of the influnece in returned anger.be the better half.
Lastly, love keeps no record of wrongs.
When you eventually found that love. Always be forgiving after disbelieving your partner, speak openly and when things are resolved. Cut the memory away forever. The worst ambition is to blackmail your own relationship of using your own partners wrong doing or mistake against them, dont feel good about wanting to be right, it feels good but it burns down great amounts of hate and unnecessary stirred up anger.
Doing everything right ,even if it is hard to do, completing this relationship challenge make you a over comer and a winner for life. Love to many is physical attraction and sexual fantasies, when actually it is a pure state of behavior that always remain cheerful and helpful to bind a nd uplifts a relationship to its atmost fullest.
Hope this helps to clear your thoughts on what love is .