A broken heart is not something you should be afraid of. A broken heart is your fatigue. A broken heart – that means you did something that not everyone can do. You let someone into your heart, you gave the best that you have, all of yourself, even that which you did not want to show. You gave, but the reaction was not what you expected and hoped for.
He took advantage of your trust. He saw your weaknesses and pretended to care. He took your love and never gave as much. And he took her even when he left. He took a part of you that he’ll probably never return, a part of you that you might never know again. But now is the time to say goodbye. Say goodbye to the person you were when you were together, when he was still there. Say goodbye to the person you are no longer. You are no longer his girlfriend, wife, lover, you are no longer HIS, you are just you.
You are you and all those broken pieces of your heart with which he left you. And you can decide to stay broken, lie on the floor scattered in pieces, or accept this fact, but start collecting yourself again . You are still here, even if not yet intact, even if all that remains of you is fragments of the person you were.
Your broken heart does not define you, but it helps to grow. Because those parts of you that are really important, no one can break. He can break your heart, not your soul. He cannot break what makes you up.
A broken heart hurts. This causes a feeling of hopelessness, fatigue, I want to run away from this, to rebel against everything. Pain becomes the main motivation, and you start to do something, only because you are in pain, sad, because you are angry . And although all this is the consequences of a broken heart, one should not be afraid of it.
A broken heart is not a monster under your bed, not falling from a great height, not diving without air to the bottom of the ocean. Yes, it hurts. Yes it’s sad. Yes, exhausting. But there is nothing to be afraid of.
A broken heart is a reality. Love ends, and we begin to return to the time when she was still alive. We think about everything, analyze and drive ourselves crazy.
But after this crazy period, we learn. We are aware of who we are. And then we think less about the past and about the person with whom we shared life, and we begin to look into the future.
We begin to understand what kind of people we want to see in our lives, how we want to give our love, because we know that they will return theirs to us. And when we understand what kind of love we deserve, then it is much easier to accept it when we meet it.